‘How simple and fragile life is…’
Can you imagine how the world would change if we all began each day with this knowing? Unfortunately, we seem to be a species that usually learns via hindsight and those who do wake with this knowing usually do so because a fresh loss has reminded them of this truth.
In trauma research, those who are interviewed after experiencing an extreme event (such as a near fatal car accident) often say that time begins to move in slow motion in the millisecond that passes between their awareness of the fact that they are going to be in an accident and the actual impact. There are many documented reports of this phenomenon and brain researchers often call it hyper-arousal. In basic terms, it seems that when we are facing a fatal or near fatal event, the brain unleashes a flurry of chemicals that slow everything down so that what is occurring in that split second of real time, unfolds in glorious ecstatic detail to the one whose life is on the line. Most recall these moments before impact as being filled not with fear- but with peace and beauty.
I know, feeling peace and beauty before a horrendous physical accident seems counter-intuitive, but there are far too many accounts of this phenomenon for it to be dismissed. I happen to think that the brain has a wisdom that we can learn from and lately my opinion of this has grown even stronger. A few months ago I got a new phone. I am not terribly tech savvy so most of the features on this gadget have remained a mystery to me. Even so, one day when videotaping our youngest son at a soccer game I hit an errant button and accidentally created a slow motion video. When I played it back it was astonishing to me how much raw emotion was evoked as I watched our son run in slow motion across that field. Just being able to see in detail the symphony of movements that rippled through every inch of his body as his foot made contact with the ball changed everything. That ‘accidental’ 7 second clip of video gave me so much more to savor than my simple human perception was able to.